Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Presentation of MBA Work and a fight breaks out

Well after the information session on Thursday the result was pretty good for our team, this was apparent from evaluation yesterday. We set the template up for the others and that seemed to help them along, although yesterday at some point I did have my doubts about the outcome. I recognize now that although we are all in this MBA program to lead and manage one day some of us are not at the same level of want and needs, and I guess that must come to the hierarchy of needs, or at least I will attribute it at this time. While some want to spearhead the program some are content with following as the saying goes," Too many chiefs and not enough Indians". I guess this is okay to have the Indians but the Indians must give feedback at some time or else they would all die at some point. Anyhow, on Saturday I went to a baby shower and a bachelor party on the same day, it was quite interesting but I did not like the result of the bachelor party. Here's the scoop: I had and let me preface the situation by saying that HAD, when I growing up in high school my best friend, BFF, LOL, hung out together with his cousins which became kinda like my cousins-friends, real tight group, well I went to college and met more friends that became good friends also, well the common denominator in both set of friends is that we enjoy playing basketball so I combined the sets together about 7 years ago, and we have been friends ever since, it even got to the point where they would hang out without even inviting me. Well the bachelor party resulting in a fight, how did it happen, well since I did not see it I asked and found out that, cousin-friend thought it would be funny to pour some beer on one of the guys that was REALLY having a great time and I saw that and really thought nothing of it, guys being buys, well the guy took offense to it and says,"I'm going to kick your ass", which since I have known him means all but that, since he has said that a record number of times and to this date has never as close as come to clench a fist, which means idle threats just so that he feels good that he said it, ( not friend bashing at all just stating the facts, plus he's my friend and that would be furthest thing from my mind). Well an other friend saw this situation transpire thought he should go over to the cousin-friend and get in his face about it. Well to make a long story short cousin-friend punched college friend square in the face busting his nose, and putting and end to bachelor night and really ruining a good dance that the other guy was enjoying. The you get the backlash of questions,"Who's friend is that guy?", "You're friends messed this party up!" Of course I feel bad for what happened, but the truth is that 'he is not my friend or his friend', I responded, 'he is OUR friend, things got out of hand, a fight broke out, they partied together before I do not know what happened but he is our friend, they will find a solution for their problem'.

Also I bought a new washer since I was not enjoying going to the laundry mat that place is full of weirdos.

The baby shower had no fights, but I saw one guy looking at me when I walked in, just kiddin' (I guess as long as the party has no boos or strippers fights wont break out), oh by the way the father to be is Vietnamese and the mother is Austrian, and the guy who was looking at me was father to be's brother who I hadn't seen since his wedding and the seven course meal. Those Vietnamese sure can eat, just how do they stay so thin, a Chinese riddle I guess.

The weight is 192 lbs. not a good weekend with beers a plenty, I better run today.

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